Desire School

Understand Your Body. Reconnect With Yourself. Transform Your Intimacy.

Have you ever wondered...

Why don't I want sex the way I used to?
Why does desire feel so much harder than everyone else makes it seem?
Why did I lose that spark?
Is something wrong with me?

If you've ever asked yourself those questions, I want you to know something first:

You're probably not broken.

Most women were simply never taught how female desire actually works.

Instead, we've been told we're "too complicated," that it's "just hormones," or that we should simply try harder.

But desire isn't something you force.

It's something you understand.

That's exactly why I created Desire School.

Desire School is an educational community designed to help women understand the science of desire, uncover what's affecting their intimacy, and build a healthier relationship with their bodies—without shame, guilt, or pressure.

Whether you're navigating stress, motherhood, burnout, ADHD, perimenopause, relationship challenges, or simply feel disconnected from yourself, you'll finally have a place where everything starts making sense.

What You'll Learn

Inside Desire School you'll find a growing library of lessons covering topics like:

Why women aren't broken
How female desire actually works
Responsive vs. spontaneous desire
Stress, burnout & mental load
ADHD and neurodivergence
Hormones, perimenopause & menopause
Body image & confidence
Pleasure and orgasm
Communication & intimacy
Pelvic floor health
Pain during sex
And so much more...

This isn't just theory.

Every lesson is designed to help you better understand yourself and apply what you're learning to your real life.

What's Included

✔️ Step-by-step educational curriculum

✔️ The Desire Snapshot self-assessment

✔️ Guided exercises and self-reflection prompts

✔️ Monthly live Q&A sessions

✔️ Resource library

✔️ Community discussions

✔️ Anonymous surveys that help shape future lessons

✔️ New trainings added regularly

As Desire School grows, so does the curriculum.

Members help shape what gets created next.

Who Desire School Is For

Desire School was created primarily for women who...

Feel like they've lost their desire
Want to understand why intimacy has changed
Feel overwhelmed, touched out, or emotionally exhausted
Are navigating motherhood, burnout, ADHD, or perimenopause
Want evidence-informed education instead of shame or myths
Want to reconnect with themselves—not just improve their sex life

Supportive partners are welcome too.

Because the more we understand female desire, the healthier our relationships become.

Why Learn From Me?

Hi, I'm Alicia Kay.

For over 11 years, I've worked in the sexual wellness industry, helping hundreds of thousands of women navigate the questions traditional sex education rarely answers.

Along the way I've built a community of over 500,000 followers, generated over $1 million in product sales, and received thousands of messages from women telling me my content helped them finally understand themselves and reignite intimacy with their partners.

Before this career, I studied Veterinary Microbiology, giving me a strong foundation in science and research. Today I combine evidence-informed education with over a decade of real-world experience and countless conversations with women from every stage of life.

My mission isn't to tell you what your desire should look like.

It's to help you understand why it works the way it does.

Because understanding creates freedom.