Product Guides & Tips
Do Arousal Gels Actually Work? Why Pleasure Enhancement Products Feel Different for Everyone
“It didn’t do anything.” “All I felt was COLD.” “This stuff is a scam.” I’ve seen some version of these reviews on enhancement products more times than I can count....
Do Arousal Gels Actually Work? Why Pleasure Enhancement Products Feel Different for Everyone
Do Arousal Gels Actually Work? Why Pleasure Enhancement Products Feel Different for Everyone
|Alicia Sobczynski
What’s Actually in Arousal Gels? Warming, Cooling & Tingling Ingredients Explained
Have you ever put on an arousal gel and thought: WHY IS MY CLITORIS COLD?! Or maybe: Why does this feel warm? Why is it TINGLING? And what the hell...
What’s Actually in Arousal Gels? Warming, Cooling & Tingling Ingredients Explained
What’s Actually in Arousal Gels? Warming, Cooling & Tingling Ingredients Explained
|Alicia Sobczynski
Best Arousal Gels & Pleasure Enhancers: I Tested 12 — Here’s How They Compare
So you’ve decided you want to try an arousal gel, pleasure serum or enhancement product. And now you’re staring at a bunch of options promising things like: 🔥 WARMING❄️ COOLING⚡...
Best Arousal Gels & Pleasure Enhancers: I Tested 12 — Here’s How They Compare
Best Arousal Gels & Pleasure Enhancers: I Tested 12 — Here’s How They Compare
|Alicia Sobczynski
How to Prepare for Anal Play: A Simple Beginner’s Guide
Anal play should not be something you grit your teeth and “get through.” Whether you’re completely new to it or trying to make penetration more comfortable, the goal is to...
How to Prepare for Anal Play: A Simple Beginner’s Guide
How to Prepare for Anal Play: A Simple Beginner’s Guide
|Alicia Sobczynski
How to Douche for Anal Play Without Overdoing It
First things first: you do not have to douche before anal play. For many people, having a bowel movement and gently washing the external anal area is enough. But if internal...
How to Douche for Anal Play Without Overdoing It
How to Douche for Anal Play Without Overdoing It
|Alicia Sobczynski
How to Use a Suction Vibrator: Tips for Better Clitoral Stimulation
Suction toys. Pulsating toys. Air-pulse toys. Whatever you call them, they tend to inspire some VERY strong reactions. Some people try one and immediately wonder where it has been their...
How to Use a Suction Vibrator: Tips for Better Clitoral Stimulation
How to Use a Suction Vibrator: Tips for Better Clitoral Stimulation
|Alicia Sobczynski
Anal Play Hurts? Why Anal Dilators May Help You Prepare More Comfortably
If you’ve tried anal play and thought, Nope. Absolutely not. That hurts, it doesn’t necessarily mean anal play isn’t for you. It may simply mean your body wasn’t ready for...
Anal Play Hurts? Why Anal Dilators May Help You Prepare More Comfortably
Anal Play Hurts? Why Anal Dilators May Help You Prepare More Comfortably
|Alicia Sobczynski
Why Using Lubricant Is a Game-Changer—Even If You Think You Don’t Need It
Let’s get one thing straight: using lubricant isn’t just for people “who need help.” It’s for everyone who wants to enjoy more comfortable, pleasurable, and connected intimacy—whether solo or with a...
Why Using Lubricant Is a Game-Changer—Even If You Think You Don’t Need It
Why Using Lubricant Is a Game-Changer—Even If You Think You Don’t Need It
|Alicia Sobczynski
Free Intimacy Tips
Understanding Your Partner’s Body Language During Sex
Learn her body language when she likes something — because not all pleasure looks the same. One of the biggest mistakes people make in the bedroom is assuming that pleasure...
Understanding Your Partner’s Body Language During Sex
Understanding Your Partner’s Body Language During Sex
Mismatched Desire in Relationships: Why It’s Normal and How to Navigate Different Sex Drives
Mismatched desire is one of the most common — and least talked about — challenges couples face. Many people believe that if you truly love each other, sexual desire should...
Mismatched Desire in Relationships: Why It’s Normal and How to Navigate Different Sex Drives
Mismatched Desire in Relationships: Why It’s Normal and How to Navigate Different Sex Drives
How to have better sex TONIGHT
How to have better sex - TONIGHT! And it starts with a reframing of what sex means: Penetration Isn’t the Main Event — Here’s What Should Be If you grew...
How to have better sex TONIGHT
How to have better sex TONIGHT
Enhancing Intimacy: The Power of Communication in Relationships
One of the top questions/comments I get asked/told for selling sex toys is “oh, your sex life must be great!” or “has your sex life improved since selling this stuff?”...